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Especially if you’re shopping for children, one very important factor to consider is how long the gift will actually last. I can’t find the statistic right now, but in some places I’ve read that the average Christmas gift toy is broken or no longer used within 3 months.

That’s pretty sad, if it’s indeed accurate.

That kids get bored with all the toys they get does not surprise me in the least. Many kids simply get too many, and really cannot maintain interest in them all. It also teaches them to value their toys less.

One of the smartest things you can do when shopping for children is to figure out what they really will enjoy. And then, rather than buying a ton of toys, get just a few that are better quality.

The many toy recalls this year have simply emphasized the need for better quality toys to many parents. Many are looking to more natural toys, such as those offered at Magic Cabin and similar stores. Such toys do more to promote creativity without resorting to familiar television characters.

Cutting back on the usual holiday excess of toys can help your kids to value what they do get more, as well as allow parents to spend less money. It can be quite a good deal for everyone.

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We’ve made it past Black Friday, one of the hottest shopping days of the holiday season. But there’s always the talk of the Monday that follows, nicknamed Cyber Monday, as another big shopping day. How big is it?

In past years it really hasn’t been all that big. In fact, retailers such as Amazon.com haven’t always even bothered with it. Then again, the term is only a couple years old, so it can easily be seen as more hype than reality.

Other sites do have a more open view of it. Better to take advantage of the heavy traffic that will be present than to ignore it, gaining what sales are possible. And this can be good for online shoppers.

I strongly prefer Cyber Monday shopping to Black Friday. Worst thing you get is a crashed server, but more likely you’ll be able to shop just fine. The sites are busy, but most won’t be much slower than usual. Smart retailers should be ready to cope with the high level of traffic.

It’s interesting to see how sales go for Cyber Monday. Basically, sales keep peaking every Monday through the season. I would assume this to be due to people shopping online after trying to shop in stores over the weekend. Can’t find it in your area? Check it out online.

Be willing to bargain shop if you want to save on your holiday shopping. A lot of places online have better prices and/or free shipping of products, so that you can save yourself a lot of time and inconvenience by shopping online.

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A lot of people get up very early for Black Friday deals. They stand in line waiting for stores to open, then fight the crowds for potentially highly limited supplies of whatever is on their list.

Is it worth it?

This is a very personal decision. I’m not a Black Friday shopper. The deals can impress me at times, but I really dislike the crowds and the tension in wondering whether or not a particular item will still be released.

One plus these days is that many of the deals can be found online as well. Not all of them, as many stores really want to get you into the door, but if you can make the purchase online (especially if shipping is free), why fight the crowds? It’s worth checking out in advance, even if you have to get up early to make sure the website doesn’t sell out. You probably won’t have a big crowd at your computer.

And of course some sites such as Amazon have Black Friday deals too. Check your favorite online merchants and see if they’re advertising anything.

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I read a report on Motley Fool today on how bad an idea it is to spend a ton of money on weddings. I have to agree. My husband and I had a wonderful wedding, yet spent under a third of the average on it.

The report on Motley Fool notes that if you take the average $28,000 that people spend on weddings and invest it, in 40 years it could be worth over $1 million, if well invested. Not a bad deal.

Saving money on a wedding can be tough, but it can be done. I started out with a $250 dress, which is much less than most people spend. My favorite was $600, but I couldn’t justify more than doubling my cost for a one-use dress just because I liked the more expensive one a tiny bit more.

Decisions like that are challenging if you’re stuck in the idea that your wedding day should be utterly spectacular. But is it really worth going into debt for, whether you’re paying for it yourself or having your parents go into debt over it?

Some expenses are harder than others to control. Wedding cakes are generally just outrageously priced. Locations may charge you for every little thing, from food servers to corkage fees for wine and champagne to slicing the wedding cake. You really have to pay attention to what all is included.

The location can be expensive, and sometimes you have limited options. Some faiths, for example, only allow you to get married in the church building itself, rather than allowing you to choose a location more freely. On the plus side, many churches are quite affordable, even if you use their reception hall.

Cutting the costs is not easy, but you can do it. Simplify your decorations. We had simple bowls with floating candles for centerpieces, and rose petals scattered on the tables, and these cost less than we could have rented centerpieces for. Considering how often centerpieces go home with guests, I’ve often thought renting centerpieces was a risky decision.

A great way to cut costs is to involve your friends and family. You may well know someone who would be delighted to do your wedding video or photography as their gift to you. Someone else may be good with flowers or decorations.

A beautiful wedding doesn’t have to mean years of debt. You can have a wonderful, memorable celebration of your wedding without overspending.

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Credit cards are very tempting during the holiday season, but too many people spend months paying off their holiday expenses. It’s really not the smartest of financial moves.

But that doesn’t mean you can’t use your credit cards for your holiday shopping. It just means you should be considering your overall budget as you do so. Credit cards are very convenient, after all.

Figure out your shopping budget. You want your finances to be prepared for the holiday season. Think about how long you want it to take to pay off whatever you put on your credit cards for Christmas and other holidays.

If you choose to spend more than you can pay off immediately after the holidays, work out how you’re going to pay things off beforehand. Think about what you will be willing to pay each month and how many months this will take. This can also help you to decide if all the spending will be worth it.

Credit cards are the easiest way to shop online, of course. Remember as you shop online that many sites such as Amazon offer free shipping if you spend a certain amount. Don’t try for that amount if it’s not in your budget, of course, but if you have to ship the gift anyhow buying online means you don’t have to stand in line at the post office. The trick can be deciding what to do about gift wrapping, which is not cheap through most sites.

Sanity about spending can be difficult to maintain at this time of year, especially if you have high expectations of what you want your holiday to be. But keeping the fact that you will have to pay your credit card off at the end and planning your budget ahead of time can help to keep things under control.

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It’s beginning to look a lot like… the holiday season. A most expensive time of year for many people, and one in which overspending can be rampant.

It’s pretty clear why a lot of people spend the way they do this time of year. It’s a time you’re supposed to be showing your appreciation for your family, celebrating and overall having fun. The way many people do this is not cheap. But you should not stretch your finances so badly that you’re still paying it off months later, especially if you’ve been having money problems.

Look at Your Financial Situation

The first thing you need to do is to be honest with yourself about what you can afford to spend on the holidays. If it’s not much, the people you love will just have to understand. There are gifts that don’t cost money you can give.

Think of Alternatives

Gift giving doesn’t have to mean breaking the budget. If you can’t afford gifts, give time. Help out with something that needs doing. This can be especially welcome to elderly relatives who really don’t need more clutter, but will appreciate having a little extra help or possibly even just extra visits.

If you are good at making something, consider handmade gifts. These often cost less money, although some are time consuming to create.

You can also discuss who all should be involved in gift exchanges. Many families draw names to cut down on shopping or agree that adults don’t need Christmas gifts. Things like that really help to control holiday expenses.

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