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Marriage is quite the adventure. Everything you do suddenly impacts someone else, even more so than when you were dating. And this is particularly true of financial matters.

People can go back and forth about whether or not joint bank accounts are the best things for a couple. And there are good points on both sides. Joint accounts take care of the question of whose account pays for which bills, for example. But other people like to keep things separate, either because that’s just how they like to run things or because their spouse doesn’t have the same money spending or saving habits they do.

There are similar issues for credit cards.

A joint account can be a good idea, as either of you can use it and most purchases will probably be for both of you, but it can also have some bad points.

The Good Point

For the one with the lesser credit score, getting a card together is a chance to get better credit. The card will still need to be paid properly. But if you can both keep from making mistakes you can bring the lower score up over time.

The Bad Points

The flip side of someone with a good credit score getting credit with someone who has a lesser credit score is that if they continue to make mistakes your credit score can go down too. Any combined accounts will impact both of your scores.

This also means that if one of you starts having trouble with money or starts abusing credit, it’s going to impact both scores. While most people trust their spouse, things happen. It’s not always about being unreliable. Sometimes it’s just a bit of bad luck.

Many couples will be able to rely upon each other’s credit with no problems whatsoever. Whether or not you combine or get new joint accounts, the most important thing is to keep each person’s credit score in good shape.

Why?

Let’s assume you come to a time where you can buy a home. Odds are both of your names will be going on that mortgage. You’re buying a home together, after all. If one of you has a poor credit score you will both be stuck with a higher interest rate on your mortgage.

Remember that the only way your credit scores interact with each other is on your joint accounts. If you have trouble keeping up with a joint account, it will impact both scores. But if you keep all your credit accounts separate, problems for one will not mean problems for the other. The credit bureaus do not care if you’re married. Their only interest is how you treat your credit.

It seems like everything is getting more expensive right now. That’s no surprise, since the cost of fuel has gone up so much, and anything that has to be transported to you is going to be impacted by that increase.

Sure seems to make it harder to manage your debts, doesn’t it?

When you’re already in debt and prices start spiraling upward your situation can seem just about hopeless. It’s harder to pay extra on your debts when it’s harder to just scrape by. The overall situation just isn’t pretty. You can still work on it, however.

Step 1: Take a good look at the problem

Where do your money troubles come from? They could be a result of medical bills, job loss, poor spending habits or other reasons. You need to understand where your problem comes from and what is keeping it going if you’re going to get anywhere with this.

That’s doubly important, of course, if the issue is ongoing and you can do something about it. You don’t want to trap yourself with guilt about your debts, but you do want to acknowledge how they happened or are continuing to happen.

Step 2: Rethink how you spend your money

Few of us are so good with money that we already know where all of it goes. There are lots of little things that really add up fast that may be a part of your problem. Or it could be regular big things that you decide to treat yourself to. Or it might just be something that you have to deal with no matter what.

Get and keep receipts for all your spending for at least a month. The more detailed the better, as little purchases can hide in some of your more practical shopping. Go over them and see where your habits are going wrong.

This can help you to target the areas that you should be cutting back on. All those trips out for coffee, for example, can really add up when you could be making coffee at home. You can even add flavors at home for far less than you would at the coffee shop.

Don’t forget to consider bigger things too, of course. If you’re really serious about cutting back look at things like your cable and telephone bills to see about monthly bills that could be smaller.

Step 3: Limit yourself to one credit card

But only if you can use that one card wisely. You may need to get rid of them all if that’s the only thing that will keep your spending habits under control.

Credit cards are a highly convenient way to pay for many things. Even some monthly bills may be paid on them, which you need to consider if you’re cancelling accounts. You will want to be sure to change how those are paid.

Your credit card usage should be limited to things you need to buy and will pay off that same billing period. Pick the best credit card you have or get a better one if you need to. Go for low interest, no annual fees and cash back.

If you can’t control yourself with a credit card, use only cash. This is much harder for a lot of purchases, as you have to go to the ATM every time you run out, but if you control how much you withdraw it is much harder to overspend.

Step 4: Pick a debt to target

There are a few theories about which debt to target first. Some say to go for the lowest balance; others the highest interest rate. But whichever you choose, put any extra money you have towards payments on that debt, and do the minimum on the rest. This will allow you to rid yourself of your debts one at a time and make faster progress as you go.

Step 5: Increase your income

In many ways this is the most important step when prices are going up as they have. There’s only so much you can do with the previous steps if you’re stuck at the same income level, especially if it has been barely sufficient for your vital monthly expenses.

There are a few ways to do this. One of the simplest can be to ask for a raise at your current job. You’ll need to show that you deserve it, of course, and depending on your job it may or may not be easy to get one.

You can also consider taking on a second job. Yes, you will lose out on free time. But sometimes that is the only way to earn enough money to get out of a pile of debt. If you’re up for working in a restaurant, tips can add up quite nicely.

Another idea is to freelance or start a home business. There’s some risk in this, as you will need to spend at least a little money for most business models, but it can also be a lot of fun. Make sure that what you do does not conflict with your current employment. Do not risk more than you can afford to lose, and do not expect to get rich quick. That’s how people get scammed and lose their money.

Step 6: Don’t give up

It may take a long time to get your debts paid down if they’ve been a major problem for you. Depending on how you go at it, it could take years. But some people manage to pay down significant debts in a matter of months. It all depends on your own situation.